Why Do Men AND Women Cheat?!
Why Do Men And Women Cheat In Relationships
This is an age old question which i am going to try and give my answer or answers to right here, right now! Im sure all you readers out there have your own opinions to why do men and women cheat!
First of all why is it that when it comes to cheating the focus is always on us men?? Whenever the subject of cheating is brought up, its always because some female is about to have a huge male bashing conversation. You know thats not right!
Women are the best at the cheating game! I have to admit that women have us beat when it comes to who are the best cheaters. Men have been losing this game since the beginning of time and we continue to this day. Right now as i write this article, Kobe Bryant is going thru a divorce due to infidelity. Even with all his money and resources he still ended up getting caught. How is that possible? Many male celebritites and athletes are in the news for getting caught with other women. Even our ex President Clinton made Monica Lewinski famous because she performed sexual favors for our leader of the USA.
Some Reasons Why Women Cheat:
- She is out for revenge because she was cheated on first! – We all know two wrongs dont make a right, but a woman is not gonna forget that she has been played. Forgive, maybe. Forget, NO! Once you cheat on your girl its almost like you gave her a ‘have a free affair’ card that she may cash in anytime the right lucky guy comes around. She may have wanted to do it all along but the second you got caught put the battery in her back to actually go do it. Your best defense against this is just to not do it at all. Remember, we are no good at this game!
- She is feeling neglected or her man isn’t paying attention to her - They complain if you don’t talk to them enough, because alot of women like to talk. They like the lines of communication to be open and thats cool. But sometimes yall talk too damn much lol! They like to feel appreciated. They like to know that they are still attractive and sexy in our eyes. They may even want us to take one sunday and not watch football so we can be with them! Crazy right! But if you dont show your woman the attention they want, some other dude is gonna see what you saw in your girl the first time you laid eyes on her. He may give her that compliment that you haven’t given her in a long time and be smooth enough too sweep her off your feet and snatch her from your arm.
- Not enough fun in the bedroom – If you been with the same person for a long time then its possible that the sex can get boring. Think about it. The same position, the same bed, the same amount of time, the same person! It wouldn’t hurt to spice it up every now and then. Don’t be afraid to be spontaneous. Right before she goes to work in the morning, bust in the shower while she is naked and lathered up with soap and show her who is the f–kin man! Or one night take her outside and do it in a public place! Trust and believe that there are other guys who would love to have their way with your girl.
Some Reasons Why Men Cheat:
- Just because he can – Chris Rock once said ‘ a man is only as faithful as his options!’. Men cheat just because the opportuntiy is there. Some men are not ready to be monogamous. If the right woman comes along and puts herself out there like she wants to give him some, he might just take it. Sad, but true. There is actually nothing a woman can do about that. It doesnt matter how good his girl at home looks, how good she cooks, or how good her sex is because he is curious about that other woman. That is not cool, but that’s one of the reasons why it happens.
- The girlfriend/wife is always making the guy mad or complains alot or is a constant nag! – Constant bikering and nagging about silly things is a sure fire way to drive your man away. If you like confrontation and like to argue then be sure that your man is going to find someone that is a little easier to be around and deal with. Alot of women make mountains out of ant hills and its really not that serious. Take a step back and ask yourself if its really worth arguing about.
- His girlfriend/wife isn’t doing what he likes in the bedroom – Your man may like certain things that you are not willing to do in the bedroom. There is always a woman out there who will do that freaky stuff that you frown upon. Women these days seem a little more aggressive than in the past and they may have their eyes on your man. What are you going to do to keep his attention on you?
These are only a few of the many answers to the question why do men and women cheat. Men and women are alike in some ways and different in others which is why we should try harder to meet each others needs and maybe we can get along better. Maybe.
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